6/17/13

June 16th Job 15-21


Job 15 – 21

“How rarely we weigh our neighbor in the same balance in which we weigh ourselves.”  Thomas A. Kempis

The three friends of Job become more intense in their arguments.  Their focus becomes more and more in proving that Job is wrong rather than giving Job help.  They HAD to win!  If Job was not a sinner being punished by God, then their understanding of God was all wrong.  That would mean that they had no protection against suffering themselves.  If obedience is not a guarantee of health and wealth, the what happened to Job might happen to them. 

Job’s friends were not true theologians…they saw only one side of the picture…the side they wanted to see. 

Eric Hoffer wrote, “We are least open to precise knowledge concerning the things we are most vehement about.”  OR fearful about!  Might be more easily said, “Don’t confuse me with the facts!”

Eliphaz only repeated himself in his second speech although this time without any kindness or patience.  He begins to use SARCASM.  He issued two warnings.  He was using one of the oldest tactics in debate—if you can’t refute your opponent’s arguments, attack his words and make them sound like a lot of “hot air”. 

Eliphaz not only heard Job’s words, but he feared where they led 15:4.  If everybody believed as Job believed: that God does not always punish the wicked and reward the Godly, then what motive would people have for obeying God?  This is Satan’s theology, the very thing that God was using Job to refute!  If we only serve God for what we get out of it, then they are really serving themselves…promotes selfishness and not glorifying God. 

The LORD had said such to Israel in its infancy when God dealt with them as with children.  Children understand rewards and punishments far better than they do ethics and morality.  When the new generation was about to enter Canaan, Moses gave them a higher motive for obedience…their love for God.  They were no longer children. . .no need to frighten or bribe them into obeying Him.  Love is the fulfillment of the law Rom. 13:8-10.  Highest motive John 14:15.

Eliphaz used Job’s words against him.  He became sarcastic/he had run out of something intelligent to say…another debater’s trick.  Eliphaz assumed that Job had a wicked heart 15:5-6, lacked wisdom because he lacked experience v. 7-10.  Age is no guarantee of wisdom 32:9.  He assumed that Job’s attitude was wrong because he refused God’s help. 

Eliphaz begins to describe the sufferings of the ungodly man…really speaking of Job.  He was not a subtle man.  Then his hardest blow: he called Job a hypocrite and a Godless man…blamed him for the tragedies that had befallen him and his family. 

What he said of the wicked man IS NOT ALWAYS TRUE IN THIS LIFE.  Many wicked people go through life apparently happy and successful…while many Godly people experience suffering and seeming failure.  It is true that ULTIMATELY the wicked suffer and the Godly are blessed.  “sunshine to the evil and good and sends rain on the just and the unjust Matt 5:45.  The only suffering that God’s people experience is in this life for in heaven there will be no pain or tears. 

Job said in 16:5 If we swapped places…v. 9-  he recognized the source of his suffering.  

In chapter 16-17 Job makes three requests of his friends: 1.  A plea for sympathy v. 1-14  2. A plea for justice v. 15-22  3.  3. A pleas for death 17:1-16 When people suffer so much that their “spirit is broken 17:1 then they lose their ‘fight’ and want life to end.  BUT Job did not consider taking his own life or asking someone else to do it for him.  Life is a sacred gift from God and only God can give it and take it away. 

God did not answer Job’s plea for death because He had something far better planned for him.  God saw beyond his emotions of depression and bitterness and saw that Job still had faith. 

When speaking to someone – listen with your heart and not just your ears.  It is not what they say but WHY they say it that is important.  Reflect back to them their pain in different words what they are feeling.  Don’t argue or try to convince them with logical reasoning.  Patiently accept their feelings—build bridges, no walls. 

To be a true comforter, there is a price to pay and not everyone is willing to pay it.  II Cor. 1:3-11.  John Henry Jowett said, “God does not comfort us to make us comfortable, but to make us comforters.  God’s comfort is never GIVEN, it is always LOANED.  God expects us to share it with others. 

Bildad takes the soapbox again – rather than offering compassion he is primed to frighten Job out of his wits with the most vivid pictures of death.  He blamed Job for the stalemate and admonished him 8:2.  Bildad and the two other friends were playing their same records over and over.  Rather than sarcasm, Bildad’s approach was FEAR.  Bildad made 2 serious mistakes…he preached to the wrong man…Job was a believer, he preached with the wrong motive…there was no love in his heart. 

Bildad’s pictures of the death of the wicked:  *A light put out v. 5-6.  *A traveler trapped v. 7-10 … dangers people face when they try to run away from death:  a net, a snare, a trap, a robber, a snare, a trap.  A lost man is like a beast because he does not have God in his life.  He cannot escape the traps  *A criminal pursued v. 11-15.  *A tree rooted up  v. 16-21

Tho Bildad was talking to the wrong man with the wrong motive, what he said about death should be taken seriously.  Death is an enemy to be feared by all who are not prepared to die and the only way to be prepared is to trust Jesus Christ.  For the born again, death means going home to the Father.  None of the pictures that Bildad used should be applied to those who have trusted the LORD for salvation.

19:1-29 Our words either hurt others or heal them; we either add to their burdens or help them bear their burdens with courage.  Job’s friends crushed him with their words, they made him feel worthless and helpless in the face of all his suffering.  When others need to be rebuked, we should do it in love and our words should hearten them and not weaken them.

Job countered Bildad’s frightening pictures:  He felt like  AN ANIMAL TRAPPED v. 6  A CRIMINAL IN COURT v. 7  (Although he pled for justice and cries out for an Advocate to defend him before God…he did not realize that he WAS THE ADVOCATE DEFENDING GOD!)  a traveler fenced in V. 8  A KING DETHRONED 19:9  A STRUCTURE DESTROYED v. 10  A TREE UPROOTED v. 10 A BESIEGED CITY  (once again Job cannot understand why God has sent so much suffering.  Why use an atomic bomb just to destroy a tent?)

v. 13-22 Job’s suffering affected his relationship with all people…he was and felt very isolated. 

Job was confident of his eternity with God!  V. 25-27.  

Job closed his speech with a word of warning to his 3 critical friends 28-29…They would stand and be judged so they better be ready…aren’t you sinners as well? He will judge them as well…one day they will have to answer to God for the way they have spoken to and about Job so they better beware.

20-21 Zophar returns with his same old story.  He felt insulted by Job and decided to defend himself.  He made affirmations to prove that the fate of the wicked is indeed terrible:  *Their life is brief 10:4-11;  Their pleasure is temporary v. 12-19 Many people have rejected Christ and devoted themselves to the pleasure of sin.  They more they indulge, the more they crave; and the more they satisfy that craving, the less they enjoy.  The less they enjoy, the more they have to sin in order to recapture the old thrills and the more they sin, the more they destroy their ability to enjoy anything.  Their death is painful v. 20-29

Chapter 21 Job takes Zophar’s speech and shredded it into bits.  *Zophar had said that the life of a wicked man was brief, but Job refuted him by affirming that wicked people often live a long time.  *Pleasures  of the wicked…How often have you seen that happen.  *v. 22-34 Death is death no matter when it comes.  Job gets very personal with his friends: “If you really believe that the wicked are destined for an early death, have you ever warned them?  Have you ever denounced them to their face? … NO …then why are you warning a RIGHTEOUS MAN about his future?  How inconsistent can you get? 

Job makes it clear that he has no confidence in what his friends have said. 

If you want to be an encouragement to hurting people try to see things through their eyes.  BE humble enough to admit that there might be other points of view.  They had a narrow experience of life.  Held fast to their dogmatic assumptions and refused to budge. 

Someone has defined fanatics as “people who can’t change their minds and won’t change the subject.  There is always something new to learn about God, the Bible, people, and life.  Let’s be good learners and good listeners!!!!!

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